Community is Key

I began a new book (Tribes, Seth Godin) last week that really came into focus this morning.

On Wednesday mornings I meet with a small group of very diverse guys called the "Men of Action". This group ranges from ages 30 to 70+ all with varied backgrounds. We have topics we discuss and are there as a part support / part discussion group. We meet at this old diner (circa 1961) that is the quintessential "middle" America meeting place.

As I expected our leader devoted this weeks discussion to the election. Like many Americans' most of us had stayed up watching a very historical election and lamenting or celebrating some of the results. It wasn't completely surprising that there were differing opinions, but what became evident was the fact that this "tribe" of men were committed to helping each other and the country move forward.

They are optimistic....
They are genuine....
They are connected....

Most of them understand this by experience, through hard fought lessons that taught them that with help, real change can happen. They are doing life together, by trading stories on how things used to be, how far we have come and how we can help each other get through whatever life gives us.

I couldn't help but think of this book on "tribes" by Godin as I sat there this morning. He describes the fact that with technology its much easier to connect and build "fans" of our products, causes and endeavors. But we can never replace real community. Face-to-face interaction, story swappin, talking politics over coffee kind of community is the key to anyones' and everyones' success.

Tomorrow, take out the iPod and talk to a few people as you get your morning coffee. Grab a few friends and meet with them every week, join a small group at your church or get connected in some way. Life is no fun to do alone, the key is community!